Relationship Difficulties
Relationship difficulties come in many different forms. Most people wish for a good and harmonious relationship built on love and trust.
In reality that is not so easy to achieve. Every person is an individual carrying their own life story within them.
After many years together
Perhaps, after twenty years of marriage or more, you are facing the question of whether it should carry on like this to the end.
Or whether there is still a chance for a new beginning — with your partner or without.
Your feelings have changed over the years, just as you yourself have grown inwardly.
You no longer know what is right and what is wrong. You feel caught between your partner’s expectations and beliefs you have internalised, which seem to leave you no choice.
When the same thing keeps repeating
Or you have been single for a long time and keep ending up with the wrong people. It is as if the same film repeats itself, only with a slightly different cast.
You ask yourself how that can be. You love sincerely and you give everything of yourself.
You look perfectly presentable, you have a job and friends who value you. You long for a committed relationship.
And yet every possible partner stops getting in touch after the first date, or lets the whole thing quietly fade away.
Why the pattern stays
Who we find attractive and who we overlook is not decided by the mind. That selection is made on a level shaped early in life.
Someone who learned as a child that affection has to be earned will later, unconsciously, seek out precisely the people from whom it can be earned.
That is not bad luck and not a weakness. It is a pattern that once made sense.
How life coaching with hypnosis helps
LIFE COACHING with HYPNOSIS can help you to perceive yourself and your own needs consciously and clearly.
Blocking beliefs are replaced
Inner sentences that hold you back can be replaced by new and liberating ones. For instance the belief that you have to earn love.
You look at the relationship from outside
You will look at yourself and at your relationship from a different and healthier angle. And you will know better and better what is good and right for you.
The relationship with yourself comes first
Through loving appreciation, respect and regard for yourself, you will meet people who resonate with that.
Only a good relationship with yourself makes a fulfilling partnership with another person possible.
How it works
The first session lasts 90 minutes and costs 130 euros. It leaves time for your story, for setting your goal, and already for a hypnosis.
Each further session costs 90 euros for 60 minutes. All details are on my price list.
If being on your own is the main issue, there is a separate offer: Life Coaching for Singles. If a decision is pending, see Making Decisions.
Frequently asked questions
Can I come alone if my partner does not want to join?
Yes, and that is in fact the normal case. I work with you, not with your relationship.
If your share in a pattern changes, the pattern changes — even if the other person knows nothing about it and does nothing.
Do you work towards keeping the relationship together?
No. I have no outcome in mind, neither separation nor staying together. That would not be my decision to make.
My part is to help you see clearly again what you need. What you make of it is up to you.
A first step
If you are unsure, simply give me a call. In a free conversation of about 15 minutes we clear up your questions, with no obligation.
Heart to heart and as equals. Request an appointment or call +49 177 6839890. Sessions in English are available.
Hypnosis accompanies and supports therapy; it does not replace medical treatment or couples therapy. If there is violence in your relationship, please contact the German national helpline for violence against women on 116 016, or a local support service where you are.
